I just got married and was wondering....?

Do I actually have to obey my husband and do everything he tells me to do? He told me never to use vulgar language and stuff, but do I have to listen to him? And be submissive? I love my husband with everything I have, but I am just wondering what do I have to do in order to be a good wife? There are also things he wants to do in the bedroom I am not comfy with, but do I just do them to be a good wife? Or tell him no and suffer the consequences? Thanks! I am just trying to be a good wife is all.I do listen to him when he tells me n ot to talk on the phone or talk because he will do all the talking, etc.